Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits. Psalm 103:2 (NKJV)
Ask any of my nine grandchildren in the above picture what this title is about and they will be happy to tell you. When I pray before a meal, I always say thanks for my family “top to bottom”. It’s a shorthand way to include both children and grandchildren, and if I omit that phrase, they will all kid me.
This is Thanksgiving week. I would prefer that they reverse those words into Giving Thanks. That is the essence of what we should be doing, not just one day a year but every day. We do it at the dinner table when give “give thanks” for the food in front of us and the hands that prepared it.
We (including me) often take for granted the blessings we have in our lives. For Sis and me, we have enjoyed good health and an active life. We see many our age who are unable to do the things we can do which only underscores how blessed we are.
Our family – all 17 of them – continues to amaze us as they grow up. With 9 grandkids going in 9 different directions, you almost need a spreadsheet to keep up with their activities. Plus, we are keeping one grandson – Teddy on the far right in the picture – with us for his entire school year while he goes to a nearby school in Pinehurst. Reverting to being a parent again brings back memories of raising our own children.
Oh, and he makes the same mistakes his parents did, which actually makes me smile a bit. I recently scolded him for not communicating his schedule clearly, but his two uncles made similar mistakes. Some things never change.
We give thanks for the lives and gifts that God has bestowed on us and the health He has provided to accomplish them. Each day is a new day. When people ask how I am doing, my stock tongue in cheek response is that “I am vertical and above ground.” For that I am grateful. Consider the alternative.
Life throws curve balls from time to time. How you respond to them says something about you. When you are the one in the crucible, who comes to your aid? That’s what friends and family are for. We were not meant to be alone in this world and having deep friendships that have stood the test of time is a blessing. We are so lucky in that regard.
With an active family, things change quickly, and we’ve been able to be flexible to meet those needs when they occur. My wife’s brother has Alzheimer’s and we have taken time to fill in for his wife who has been his principal caregiver and needs a break now and then. Our last trip two weeks ago was interesting. Just when my sister in law was to return home to Atlanta from Charleston, she ended up in the hospital to have her appendix taken out.
“No problem”, Sis said. “You drive home to take care of Teddy and I’ll fly back when things are stable.” So I did and she returned 4 days later. That’s what family is for, and that’s what we do for each other. That, in and of itself, is a blessing to be thankful for.
Not every family have happy stories all the time. We have friends with two siblings suffering terminal illnesses which are heartbreaking. Still, we can support and surround them as friends. We can’t fix their problems, but we can offer to be there for them as they go through a difficult time of life.
This year, all of us are meeting in Washington, DC tomorrow. We will stay with my youngest son, but my older son only lives 15 minutes away. Both of my boys are ”foodies” which means that they enjoy different foods and restaurants. They are both great cooks, although one of them follows the recipe and the other makes it up as he goes along.
My one contribution to our time together on Thanksgiving is to cook a standing rib roast on a smoker called a Big Green Egg. I found a recipe for it about 6 months ago called “Butter Herb Encrusted Prime Rib” which is probably the best thing I have ever cooked in my entire life. If you are looking for something to wow your family, this recipe is it.
As we enter into this Thanksgiving week after a year of Covid and topsy turvy schedule and life-style adjustments, we should look back on the year for those small incidents in life that made us smile. Something funny perhaps. Or something that made you laugh when you didn’t think you could. Share those moments with your friends and family.
MENTOR TAKEAWAY: Mentees are one of God’s benefits to Mentors. We should pray for them daily.
RIB RECIPE: Butter Herb Encrusted Prime Rib – Big Green Egg
WORSHIP: Thank You Jesus for the Blood Applied – Charity Gayle
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